Shout out for Thanksgiving

Well, I’m back! I’m not sure how we decided to do it but somehow we ended up deciding to celebrate Thanksgiving every other year at the home of one of the siblings. It might have been after having Thanksgiving with my mom’s side of the family once? I think that might have been where the idea incubated. But, the first time we did it was back in 2003 when we started the tradition at my brother and his wife’s home in Lancaster Ohio. Then 05 was in Chicago at one of my sister’s home and then 07 I hosted so it was back to my brother’s for 09. 11 will be back in the Chicago area and then 13 will be more tricky – it will somehow involve NC or perhaps VA depending on if we celebrate at my house, wherever my other sister ends up after her husband finishes college or if we return to the Chesapeake and Elizabeth City area in general where we grew up to celebrate. If we really spread it out amongst all the siblings every two years there would be extensive travel every time for just about everyone so we are keeping it in a cycle of three for now.

For me the trip meant a 450 or so mile trek into Ohio. I made this trip once before back in 2003 and I actually traveled part of it once ot twice afterwards into Charleston, WV for work but this time I was doing it by myself so I knew there would be a lot of stopping along the way. Along the trip I left the remaining poetry books I had in my give away pile. I thought of it, after the fact, that I should have left like one of my cards for my chapbook or something but I didn’t think of that until I had left most of them at various rest stops, resturants etc along the way. Oh well, free poetry is better anyway!

Ah WV = Travel The SPREAD!

One big thing I had forgotten, for this drive up, is the tolls! Doh! Luckily, when I was buying things, I kept using large bills because I wanted to have change on me. I had forgotten while but I had exact change for all but one toll. $6 in tolls each way. Yikes! Oh well, part of the travel SURPRISE!Before I finally made it to this travel plaza, I ran into bad traffic where I-77 and I-81 split off in Wytheville, VA. I actually debated just putting a detour into my GPS (something I didn’t have the last time I made this trip!) but I just decided to suck it up and to try and enjoy the music on my iPod and the scenery.I lost about an hour. I might have made the trip in only 7 hours if it hadn’t been for that traffic! Was so glad to finally make it to my brother and his wife! We rested up for a bit, debated dinner and ended up getting take-out from Applebee’s cause no one cooks on the day before Thanksgiving right?We spent the evening playing video games, chatting, playing with my sister’s kids and at least one round of Settlers of Catan which is now our new official board game addiction. Thanksgiving Day was great. We had our turkey and fixings early which we prefer to do, so that we can spend the rest of the day just hanging out. There were more games and many cute moments with the kids

Some quotes from the kids.

The SPREAD!

Dylan: Will you pray for my face?

Jasmin: You can shoot me!

Should I explain those? Well, takes away the fun doesn’t it?

We probably stayed up a bit late on turkey day after watching Star Trek and people fall off of things in the new Mario game for the Wii but I think I functioned better with the Black Friday shopping on Friday. We got some great deals at Target and then Sam’s Club later in the day (thanks bro for letting me use your card!) and I could have spent hours in a used book store we went to over in Columbus but by 1 in the afternoon we were all exhausted so we piled back into the house for more togetherness.

At least I slept like a rock before having to get back on the road!

Love the Bridges

But get back on the road I did. I picked up White Castle for breakfast because I had missed it on the way in. My first actual eating of White Castle. Hmmm…don’t think i am sold on it or most of the fast food I ate on the trip but it was still fun to finally give it a try.

The trip back was closer to 9 hours with even more traffic and me stopping a lot because I was frankly worn out. Really stinks getting older and my ability to sit in the car for a long period of time. But at least there was no motion sickness this trip and I made it home in time to have dinner with K before we spent some quality time catching up on the DVR and just hanging out together.

We also put up our version of the Christmas tree, more pics on Facebook, but I will stop babbling now. I could babble more but I have so much I want to get done today. I am debating the amount of time I spend on the internet. Even with access, I spent a lot less time on it while I was visiting family and after I got home so I seriously want to re-evaluate my balance of real life and virtual life.
And, I really need some salad and a good long walk :)

Have a great week everyone!

On the Road Again

I’ve had a great visit with my family up in Ohio but the reality of the 25 degree weather outside and the mere fact of having to pack and drive for 8 hours makes me just want to curl back up with my blanket on the couch and pretend it is still Thanksgiving.

But, nope, need to start getting ready and on the road so I can get home and relax for a bit more before getting back to “work” on Monday.

No poems for today. I wrote on the poem a day through 11-27-09 but done with posting and probably done with doing the last few days because I’m tired of the topic, for now, and I wrote about 15 additional poems during the month so techinically I did it anyway :)

Looking forward to posting about my trip once I get back and get settled back in. Then the decisions on my “new year” that will perhaps start very soon.

Friday Not A Wrap-Up, Just a Start

Another short post because this hasn’t been a week of working on writing really, but more of spending time with family because that is ultimately what all the crazy eating and black friday shopping is all about.

Didn’t get a lot of sleep and it wasn’t from stress or anything, maybe that was just from too much food but my goodness it was good. I’ll be posting more when I get settled back at home with video and photos of the family.

Although, I have been wondering how much I am going to be posting in the future.  I am, once again, re-evaluating the amount of time I spend on the internet. I like to be involved, it is online that I have found my tribe but it is getting to be a bit much.

Decisions for another day.

Can’t wait to get through the last of the NaNo poems and start December as a month of revision.

[mooo went the poem as it left :) ]

Gobble Gobble

Am I going to do the typical “What I am Thankful For” post? Not really sure because I feel like I am pretty thankful most days.  But, I am thankful for hanging out with some of my siblings for Thanksgiving and to have a good chance to stay in pajamas all day. Yay!

Have a great day everyone!

The NaNo/Poem-A-Day Challenge poem from 11-25-09. The title is the just the prompt for the day and the poem is pretty lame because – shoot – I was in the car most of the day and the prompt was not up when I first left the house yesterday. So well. Sorry!

==farewell yoga poem, for now

Wednesday Poem Share

This is a traveling holiday for me but I still wanted to try and get in my Poem a Day Challenge before I hit the road, if possible, and to make a quick blog note. But what can I share with you today?

I think I’ll, finally, post a zombie poem. This is on that appeared in the most recent issue of Tipton Poetry Journal (link should take you to the Sept 09 issue which is cheap and has the poem in it! Great little journal, ya know you want a copy).

Zombie Girl Explains Why She Doesn’t Date

Maybe I could but I just don’t feel a need for fumbling in backseats, furtive phone calls, first this, first that.  And with who?  Imagine if I thought I might be queer – and a zombie.  Although my mother would love it.  I think she wishes she wanted women in that way.  But I don’t really want either sex in any way.  Can you be human and asexual like say a seahorse.  They are right? I can’t look it up.  There is no way I’m typing sex into any computer attached to my name.  Then the talks will start again.  Mom will push my hair back behind my ears and rub each finger of my fingers between her index finger and thumb like she is cataloging them.  One little piggy.  Her little piggy.  White as snow.  How white. Virgin white. White as a keyboard. Save document. Control Alt Delete. Lock computer. 

So two poems and I’ll be hitting the road after I give my house sitter instructions for the kitties oh and take a shower, pack the car, get some kind of caffeinated beverage and breakfast. What time will I actually get on the road? :)

Have a great holiday to everyone who celebrates and hope to be blogging from Ohio in the near future.

Poem from 11-23-09 part of the challenge

[yoga poem gone but the other one stays :) ]

Video Tuesday

This week we had a short fiction piece by Donna D Vitucci with photography by Jeff Schmuki and I was so concered about getting their names spelled right on all parts of the video and text that I accidentally tansposed two letters on the title screen. Blargh! But I didn’t want to lose a video that already had 25 views when the author caught the mistake so I used the YouTube annotations editor to cover it up as best I could. But, I confess here. Such a great story though already has 46 views on it and it hasn’t even been up for 24 hours. To read the text, bios and have a video link click HERE or click below for the video directly:

Next up is me just reading a poem. I had been wanting to read this long poem for a while so I finally did it to show what a good poet can do with a long poem to still keep the reader going. I read “Dangerous for Girls” by Connie Voisine from her book Rare High Meadow of Which I Might Dream  which is discussed HERE.

And third up I want to link to a poem called “Vocation” by Sandra Beasley. She is just getting into doing video poems and had a great post about working on video poems on her blog. I’m hoping to speak to the PC side of doing video poems in the near future. Have a great week everyone!

11-22-09 Na-No/Poem A Day

[under revision]

Monday Musical Shout Out

Normally, I spent Monday doing a list of shout outs to the books, blogs and what not that I find on the web but I thought, this week, I’d do a musical shout out because I just got back from a concert something which I had little experience with until after I was married.

First off, I’ll give a shout out to the city of Atlanta. I had not visited Atlanta until 2006 when I went to see the Cubs play the Braves. During that trip we also went to the Coca-Cola museum, Five Points area and Olympic Park. It was a fun trip where we tried out Marta as well.

Since then I have been back quite a few times including 2 other concerts and several trips to Ikea (before Charlotte got its own). I can’t imagine living down there just because traffic is so crazy, real estate is also crazy high and well I didn’t think the Marta really did well to get you everywhere but as time has gone on I’ve developed a like for Atlanta. Still not love but maybe we are getting there.

Anyway, this trip was for us to see Imogen Heap in concert. This was actually the 2nd time we saw her. The first time was back in 2006 – in Atlanta because that was the closest she came to us. We stayed over night and took the Marta to as close to the Variety Playhouse as you could get but the walk was a bit confusing and I wish I understood buses better. It was still a fantastic concert then and this one was just as good if not better.

We went to our hotel first where we had stayed for the Pet Shop Boys concert we went to towards the end of summer. We stayed at a Doubletree right off of I-85 that turned out to be only 5 miles from the concert venue. We have had two good stays at this hotel.

Dinner!We did have a few issues with parking even though we were way early to the very trendy area around Variety Playhouse (what cash only parking space doesn’t have change for a $20?) but we got a decent space for $7 and while it was somewhat difficult to get out after the show (ah the waiting!) it was still better than walking in the rain through a strange neighborhood at 11pm to try and find the bus, if, heck, it was even running that late!

We had dinner at a Thai and Sushi place called Sweet Lime which tended towards a higher end price for dinner but not completely outrageous and this trip was sort of a Christmas treat for us. Ken had Hawaiian Shrimp (think tempura shrimp with grilled pineapple and light sweet and shour sauce) while I opted for an old favorite – basil chicken. Only complaint was that their rice wasn’t very sticky which made eating with chopsticks a bit of a challenge.

We were still way early for the show, but I remember getting in much earlier the last time we went. This time we had to stand outside in the sprinkling rain for about an hour before they finally opened the doors at 7 (for an 8pm show). We managed to get our favorite seats up on the first row of the balcony and we sat around to people watch and prep for the show. I have to give a shout out to the lady who sold me a root beer, Smirnoff Ice and some popcorn cause when she carded me and saw my age she said – Well good for you. Thanks lady!

Immie before concert

The Variety Playhouse is a nice venue specially for an artist like Imogen Heap who is using a lot of computer based technology to present her show. I also love how she comes out to talk before the show and the breaks she takes during the show to chat. It was a beautiful set and she was dressed as wild as ever. This photo is from her introducting one of two opening acts she had. Even with two short opening acts she still played for about an hour an a half so we definitely got our money’s worth!

First up was Back Ted N-Ted who had the tough job of opening up. He was great fun to watch and I’m hoping to download some of his music for iTunes before any Thanksgiving travel. He looked like he was having a good time up there and that is always good to see. I think this was a somewhat harder audience than what he would have encountered at the concert we went to back in 2006, Imogen has a lot of new fans and sadly some of them the kind who sit behind you and chat the whole concert *sigh*

Back Ted N-Ted

He did seem to have a few groupies there who knew who he was :)   What was also nice to see at this show was that both of the opening acts came on stage to play as part of a band. The last time we saw Immie she played entirely by herself with a short help from a cellist who was her opening act for that show. She also had a cellist who came on stage during this show but I didn’t get a good shot from him. She auditioned a different cellist in each city, what a neat idea? The second opening act was Tim Exile.

I always come away from a good concert (the few I have been to) thinking about how I can improve my own performances of poetry and if there are ways, perhaps, that I can incorporate more musicality into my writing. When I was a teenager I really wanted to write music and I tried writing some lyrics but I never learned how to play any kind of musical instrument o you can imagine all of that was just BAD!

This was towards the end of the show and I thought it was such a nice picture that I would end with it. I love my Canon G10 and I have great video and photography of the event that I can go back to and listen to. Maybe I’ll use it as some inspiration as I am revising work and looking for the music to come out? I also think I want to read more of Imogen’s lyrics and think more about the connections between poets and songwriters.

So music, you are definitely one of my muses, even if I can’t carry a tune in a bucket or play a note. I can still sing really loudly in the shower or car when I try to forget that spys could be listening.

Now to continue with my already delayed and busy week!

NaNo/Poem a Day from 11-21-09

[another poem in the revision bucket]