Thinking About Titles

is a really poor way to start a blog/discussion/thought process about titles, but maybe that is why I want to think about them and my issues working with them.

I don’t know that I have ever written the title of a poem before writing the poem.  I have written essays and/or short stories (on a few rare unpublishable occasions) where a title came to me first and then I proceeded to write the piece to go with it.

But see that statement is why I beg issue with titles and poetry.  A title, for me, seems to lead me to a particular path-a particular expectation-a subject let’s say.  Because of my tendency to read into whatever I am reading in reference to the title, I tend-now-not to really note the title when I am reading poems and other writing.  I try to approach the poem from the first line (unless the title leads into the first line and then I have to go back) and then I read the title afterwards and see if it “works.”

Case in point for me.  I was reading a collection of essays/memoir by Jo Ann Beard entitled “Boys of My Youth” for a course.  SO my reading was already geared to thinking about non-fiction and how a book of non-fiction is structured.  As I read I kept thinking–ok how is the title functioning here?, how do these pieces fit together?–and I found myself sometimes distressed because the essays were more about the women in the writers life than the men or at least those are the characters I was more effected by.  This isn’t true of all the essays but overall I found myself wondering why did she pick that title?

So, what should I do?  I was revising some poems today and one of them now has a long title, as do a few other poems I have that are old because I think the titles give not just a hint of subject but also set up tone.  I’m trying to find a new way to approach my understanding of titles and my use of them.

Any thoughts? Any books/articles/psyciatric help I could get to aid me?

Monday.

oh and btw click through on my flickr link if you get the chance to see the art project my husband finished this weekend.  Now my guest room as some pizazz! Now I just need some guests.

New Laptop!

My husband likes to surprise me and he couldn’t help himself when I was drooling about a month ago over the perfect laptop. So I can finally leave his office alone :)   Here I sit typing away on my new HP TABLET PC, no less!  Looking forward to breaking it in.

Sent out some more poems.  Got in some more exercise. Weight not moving, but trying not to be annoyed about that.  Applied for some PT jobs.  Remain hopeful. One rejection slip. And now there is rain. I’ll call it an excellent day.

Have a great weekend everyone.

Watch out, cause the laptop has a webcam, maybe I’ll try to vlog.

2 Posts in One Day, WHAAA!!!

Ok I have to do a quick post because of this.  See I made a comment on a previous Vlogbrothers totally jokes and awesome nerdfighting video and he totally did it.  See if you can guess what it was I suggested writer John Green should do?

Doing my happy dance. Totally need a video camera. Doing my happy dance.

Fat girl happy dance may not be sexy but it sure is fun :)

 

Poem Selected…

I have officially had the quickest turn around ever on a set of poems I submitted.

Yesterday I submitted 3 poems and today I found out one of them was selected for publication online and in print at The Cherry Blossom Review (I’ll link here when it is up) for their Winter 2008 issue.   Head over and check them out!

What was even more exciting is that this is the first poem from the 2nd of my two chapbooks that has had journal publication.  So as I send the chapbook out more later this year I can actually add an acknowledgements page. Nice :)

So get out there and submit some poems!

Or just write them.

Writing them is the best part.

Social Networking

I will not be the first, or certainly the last to talk about social networking but here I go talking about it anyway.  I am an introverted person so it is difficult for me to put myself out there.  The internet does make it a lot easier to meet with likeminded people and to keep up with people both near and far.  But…there is always that but…there are so many different ways you can network online how do you choose?

Over to the right I have a “Me Online” section with the places that I have somewhat of a presence for better or worse.  Here is a run down on my thoughts about them:

Myspace–I really don’t like Myspace.  I joined because I had friends who wanted me to look at their pictures and all and I have uploaded a few things but I find the interface clunky and very juvenile looking–granted it was designed initially for teens to use but I just don’t find it that interesting, it is more like a place to just have your website for free but for that I’d take wordpress anyday.

Twitter–Twitter is amusing.  It is like mini blogging and/or mini chatting.  The drawback?  Hard to search for other people and to get other people involved, but I do like it.

Facebook–I like the look of facebook but it is a bit overwhelming with the number of applications that you can add.  I have streamlined mine down (sorry I don’t superpoke and all anymore) but I definitely prefer it to Myspace.

GoodReads–what a nice resource for readers and writers a like.  I’m just now getting my page updated again but I find it fun to see what everyone else is reading.

Poets & Writer’s Speakeasy–this is a message board.  I am starting to use it again, but it was a terrific resource when I was applying for my MFA program and in the year after I started.  I’m looking forward to monitoring it more often.

Zoetrope–Another message board.  I only participate in Queens related boards on this site but I am considering branching out into the main site as well, but how much time do I have in the day?

De.lic.ious–Probably butchered that but I like Delicious for keeping a list of my favorite websites.  I’m still not letting go of some of my favorites on Explorer but that might change in the future.

YouTube–I really enjoy youtube.  When I get a new laptop I might consider vlogging but for now I love watching vlogs and videos from Japan. I have a few family videos and some Charlotte Writer’s Club videos up there.

Picasa–photo site for Google.  Was uploading to this quite a bit but I found this kind of annoying to use and after I switched from eBlogger it made more sense to switch to Flickr

Flickr–just looks prettier than Picasa and, for me, is easier to use.  I’m slowly merging photos over to my Flickr account and maybe it will inspire me to get out and do more photos.

Other things not listed?  I like Nerdfighters site but it seems to be dieing when I just found it :( Other places I should be?  Just tell me.

Overall, I still prefer email!

But, hey, we have to get ourselves out there and I’ll try to keep a presence up on as many sites as I can because I do love to chat with people and to see how other poets (and friends of poet like people) live.

Nerdfighting

I’ve been sitting at my computer for like the past 5 minutes trying to think of something interesting to blog, but alas I am at a loss.

Today has been housework, reading, revising and preparing poems to be submitted to lit mags.

Busy but it could be seen as boring. I’ve also been continuing my recent addiciton to the Vlog Brothers on YouTube.  I wish I had found them earlier.  I’m now up to January 2008 and I wonder how long they will continue.  I’m a total nerdfighter! Just totally wish I used less adjectives and totally sounded as funny smart as they do on their videos.

It is all Jokes.

Ate My Way Through the Weekend but Better Now

You know sometimes a title can say everything you need the actual post, poem, story, article to say.

But it was a pretty good weekend.  I put back the three pounds I had taken off but I’ll try to work them back off and maybe some more. 

And the destressing wasn’t so much about the eating as it was just about letting myself just relax and not worry about food, the house, writing anything.

Sometimes you just need to not think.